Easier, faster, or just different? No-fault divorce three years on

Three years on from the introduction of no-fault divorce, our Directors share their experiences of how it has changed the way people divorce today - or not.
On 6th April 2022, the Divorce, Dissolution and Separation Act 2020 came into effect in England and Wales. The Act removed the need to assign blame in a divorce, replacing the various conditions with a single statement that the marriage has suffered an “irretrievable breakdown”.
For LGFL Director Rita Gupta, that day was full of national TV and media appearances discussing this landmark change, including a live (and lively) debate with Nicky Campbell on BBC Radio 5 Live
LGFL Directors Rita Gupta and Anne Leiper look at what the Act changed, and how we view those changes three years on.
- A single statement that the marriage has irretrievably broken down
As divorce lawyers, we very much welcomed the new Act and the removal of one of the most destructive elements of old-style divorce, the ‘blame game’. We saw how the need to allocate blame created acrimony and emotional upheaval when often it simply wasn’t necessary, and had very little impact on the end results in respect of both children and finances.
The single statement of irretrievable breakdown took much of the emotional heat out of many divorces, both straightforward and acrimonious. It seemed to also ease the pressure on children involved in divorce, with neither party required to prove just how terribly the other party has behaved, or the need to allocate blame to just one parent. It cemented the changing view of society in respect of divorce that sometimes, things just don’t work out.
However, looking at the human side of family law, it also removed the opportunity for some heartbroken parties to tell their story. This was a blow for many, who continue to fail to comprehend why their partner who has behaved badly in the marriage then walks away with seemingly little or no ramifications.
For others, they lost their ability to air all their grievances and frustrations, often achieved by contesting the divorce, but causing delay and frustrating the process.
Perhaps for some that has shifted to courtroom arguments over financial settlements. As part of the divorce, couples would normally come to a mutually acceptable financial settlement which can be confirmed as an order by the court. If they cannot agree, financial remedy proceedings may be needed.
“If you and your ex-partner cannot agree how to divide your finances you can ask a court to make a financial order (also known as the ‘contested’ route or an ‘ancillary relief order’). This means the court will decide how assets will be split. Getting the court to decide usually takes longer and is more expensive than if you and your ex-partner agree.”
RITA says:
It’s important to note that court proceedings for a financial settlement are not a chance to ‘get my side of the story’ aired. Indeed, if parties conduct any sort of ‘slanging match’, the court are unlikely entertain this, as they increasingly seek to focus on the issues and children within the marriage. If a party seeks to obstruct the process, the court can impose cost sanctions if they are pushing arguments that are irrelevant or without substance.
ANNE says:
You can and should go to court if required to get a fair and reasonable financial settlement, but that should be the primary reason. A court will still consider if an equal division of assets is the best solution and will take into consideration financial circumstances and requirements only, not hurt feelings of grievances. Conduct is generally not considered as a determining factor within financial remedy proceedings.
- Removing the opportunity to contest a divorce
This change was put in place to prevent one party unnecessarily or unreasonably blocking a divorce, such as in the Owens case. However, it has proved hard for those taken by surprise by the unexpected issuing of divorce papers by their spouse. It can be difficult if you still want to be together, but your spouse doesn’t. This often raises major questions over child arrangements and what happens to the family home.
RITA says:
Our advice is always to seek legal advice early, whether you are planning to file for divorce or have received papers unexpectedly. This is particularly important if your family circumstances are more complex, such as a blended family or having a SEND child with specific living arrangement needs.
Think carefully about how you set the ‘tone’ of your family breakdown. It can backfire later, and lead to a more difficult approach by your ex-partner, and delayed and frustrated proceedings which will be more expensive.
- The ability to file for divorce online
You can file for divorce online, either with or without the help of a family lawyer or solicitor. Whilst the process may seem straightforward and more affordable, it is all too easy to press the wrong buttons, put in incorrect or inaccurate information, or file in haste and not be able to easily stop the divorce process once it has started moving.
RITA says:
This has been a major change and, to be honest, caused a lot of issues for several clients. They came to us for help in sorting out the complications and issues that their filing online had unintentionally created. So we encourage anyone considering filing online to invest some time in getting legal advice before they do anything. At LGFL, we offer a 1 hour reduced fee consultation, so you have time to talk through your circumstances and get a professional overview of potential legal issues.
As I said in a previous article:
“If you are considering divorcing … come and talk to us first, before taking any action. It often feels good to talk to friends about your concerns, but you need to talk to a family lawyer about the legal implications, especially if your family finances or circumstances are complex or unusual.”
ANNE says:
Many people think that if they file online, it will make their divorce quicker. It won’t. All family lawyers and solicitors use the online system to apply for a divorce on behalf of their clients, once appointed to do so. The difference is that as family lawyers, we ensure the forms are completed properly and that you fully understand what you are entering into with each response you give. It’s also important to remember that your financial settlement is a separate process to the actual divorce or civil partnership dissolution. Most importantly at a time of significant change, it relieves pressure on you, and you can be reassured that your matter is being dealt with property.
For more on timescales, see the next section.
- A new timetable for divorce including a minimum 20-week ‘period of reflection’
One of the changes the Act brought in was that no fault divorce takes a minimum of 26 weeks (6 months) from application to conclusion as follows:
- Take legal advice (optional)
- Apply for a divorce
- Application received by court
- 20-week ‘cooling off’ period
- Issue of conditional order
- Minimum of a further 6 weeks
- Apply to the court for a final order
- Issue of final order approx. 9-12 months after initial application
RITA says:
Many clients have seen their divorce process take longer than 26 weeks as the family courts are still dealing with a substantial backlog after the pandemic. In our experience, the situation is improving year on year, but delays are common, and timescales cannot be relied on. We suggest that you allow at least 12 months for all legal aspects of your divorce and your financial settlement agreement to be completed.
ANNE says:
The divorce process is separate to your financial agreement process. You usually need to have your divorce conditional order in your hands before you apply for a financial order.
If you cannot agree on a financial settlement and need to go to court to get a court order, this will add more time to the process of separating, as you will need to wait for a court date. You may also need a final hearing too. At the time of writing, that could involve a further wait in between court appointments. One alternative is to arrange for a Private FDR hearing.
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